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God asks the church to be a community of people sharing a common purpose and fellowship, continually growing in faith and in the knowledge of the Son of
God. Paul describes the church as "his body, the fullness of him who filleth every thing in every way." (Eph. 1:22)
In the church we are specifically asked to "bear one another's burdens" (Gal. 6:12) and "encourage one another." (I Thess. 5:11)
People come to the church because they believe that in the body of Christ they will be cared for, challenged to grow and supported in their times of difficulty.
Yet, in today's world, they often find the church as impersonal and uncaring as secular institutions.
A church faithful to the Bible is a caring church. It is a church that plans to care for its members and visitors. It is intentional about implementing the New
Testament commands to "serve one another" (Gal. 5:13) and to be "devoted to one another" (Rom. 12:10) by organizing planned
ministries of visitation.
Because every believer is called to ministry and gifted for a specific form of ministry (Eph. 4:11-12), the work of visiting church members in their homes
is not restricted to professional pastors, but shared by all those who have the ability. Each Visitation Team member is as dedicated and equipped for this purpose
as the pastor.
Duties of the Visitor Team Member
The ministry to which a person is called when he or she becomes a Minister of Visitation can best be described in the following ways:
- Incorporating New Members. Unless a newly baptized or recently transferred member becomes friends
with at least seven compatible individuals during the first six months, it is highly likely they will quit attending.
Several visits should be made in those six months to find out about the new member and get them involved in
ministry in the church, to identify the kind of friends that will be most appropriate and to invite them to
events where they can make friends. With the newly baptized it is also important to help them identify their
spiritual gifts, understand the organization and plans of the church, and learn to practice the standards of the church.
- Contact Visitors. Each new person who shows up on Sabbath and lives in the area should be contacted
as soon as possible. It is usually most appropriate for a first-time visitor to be contacted by telephone, and often
the prospect care coordinator (or interest coordinator) will make this call. Once a visitor has returned, or requested
a house call, then the name will be given to one of the lay visitors. In this visit it is important to use
listening skills to find out what has motivated attendance at church. What is happening with this person and how can
we care for them? Is this a former Adventist or a friend or relative of an Adventist? Have they ever
attended Adventist programs such as a stop-smoking plan, family life workshop or Bible seminar?
- Visit Inactive. When a person breaks their regular routine of church attendance with no simple
explanation such as vacation or business travel, it is "a cry for help." They are experiencing some pain in their lives
and have found it more comfortable to quit attending than to continue. Often the source of pain has nothing
directly to do with the church, but is complicated because their regular friends in the congregation are not responding
to their needs. For example, when a church member goes through a divorce it is common for the other
church members to back off from contact because they "don't know what to say." The visitation team has the task
of arranging for a contact immediately to listen, try to identify the real source of pain and help them bear that
burden. If members or non-members that have stopped attending are visited promptly-within six weeks of the
attendance break-nine out of ten will return to the church.
- Visit Members who are Hurting. People who are hospitalized, individuals who are terminally ill as well
as their families, persons who are separated or in the process of divorce, those having an unplanned pregnancy,
individuals and families of those who are in trouble with the law, families who must put a loved one in a
nursing home, parents with handicapped children, the bereaved including parents suffering a miscarriage, those
shut-in at home or institutionalized, those who have lost their job, and members struggling with their faith in God
all deserve a visit from the church. The visitation team plays a key role in meeting this need because in a
typical congregation at any one time fully one quarter of the members may fall into one of these categories and the
pastor, who usually has more than one church, cannot carry the full load.
- Visit at the Time of Life Events. Occasions of joy, as well as pain, need the participation of the church in
order to bring them into spiritual focus. Members of the Visitation Team will be asked to contact parents
whose children are leaving home for school, people getting married, families having a graduation, couples
experiencing the birth of a child, people in the process of moving in or out of town, and those who are retiring.
- Yearly Contact. In healthy churches each member household gets a visit at least once a year. It may
simply be a "listening visit" to get their input regarding the church program. This goal cannot be achieved in most
congregations unless lay visitors help it happen.
Resource Materials
- Finding His Lost Sheep by Fordyce Detamore (1989, Review & Herald Publishing Association) It is the
classic Adventist book about reclaiming members.
- Christian CaregivingA Way of Life by Kenneth C. Haugk (1984, Augsburg) is the basic textbook of
the Stephen Series.
- Information about additional resources and answers to your questions can be obtained through
the denomination's "help desk" by calling (800) SDA-PLUS. A number of helpful fact sheets can also be
obtained on the Adventist Forum on CompuServe or through the Fax Plus automated fax-back system. Dial (800)
474-4SDA.
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